Let's stop separating primary school children according to their marks

Let's stop separating primary school children according to their marks
Published: 12 January 2018 (627 Views)
Yesterday, I was shocked to find out that there is a primary school which - in 2018 - used the previous year's marks to shuffle kids. The obvious result is that the ones with the highest results - those who are subsequently deemed to be the brightest or the cream of the crop - were all placed in one class. While that may feel good because who doesn't want to be recognised as smart, the imminent competition for top position may serve to have adverse effects on the kids' physical and emotional health. The children with the lowest marks were placed in the last class. The principal was heard saying that the last class was for dummies. The children who had been placed in that class heard him and they were torn; that only added salt to the injury because this separation only served to make them think they aren't smart enough. He is said to have detracted his irresponsible and insensitive statement the following day. What he doesn't know is that this detraction will not be enough to undo the damaging and demoralising impact of his words. The teacher and parents of the children must now work together to boost the students' bruised confidence lest it affects their overall attitude towards their schoolwork (or even life).

When I started primary school, I was placed in the fourth class - 1D. Up until I left primary school, I was always in the D class of our grade. To outsiders who didn't know, being in the D class probably meant that we were as bright as those in the preceding classes. Luckily, that was not the case. Those who registered early were placed in the first classes. If you ask me, that was the best criterion for our placement because marks had nothing to do with it. Why should marks have anything to do with it? We all learn at different paces and some kids have an easier time remembering things than their classmates. Their marks may only reflect that and nothing more. I know schools may want to place those who understand things at the same pace in one class because it becomes easier for the teacher to navigate her classes without necessarily worrying if her pace is too slow for the fast-learners or too fast for the slow learners. However well-intended this form of separation may be, that reasoning may be lost in the mind of the child who is left feeling like they are not smart or good enough. And having our principals, teachers or parents reinforce that does not help the child at all.

The childhood phase is a very crucial part of our lives. What happen to us, what is said to us and how the adults around us treat us plays a pivotal role in informing how we learn to perceive ourselves, others and how we relate to the world around us. Belief systems are being set during that developmental stage. Trust me, I am speaking from experience and from what I have learned when I say all this. What we tell children or how we treat them becomes imprinted on their psyche. They come to believe the words used to describe them as being a part of their identity. We have so many broken adults with low self-esteem some of whom are now trying to unlearn all the toxic things they were taught to believe about self when they were young.

Some people were led to believe they were ugly. Some people were led to believe that theirs was a bleak future. Some people were led to believe that they are "dummies" simply because their good marks, in a stream with many other students who had higher marks which only resulted in them being placed in the bottom classes. That is damaging. I know some of us may have been taught to take those negative words that people say to us and use them as a source of inspiration. When the people involved are little children, surely, we place such a huge burden on them because it is tiring having to constantly prove something to naysayers. Each time the student fails, they will feel like those words said about them are true, after all. How about we mind what we tell them, in the first instance? How about we learn to break that cycle of that produces broken adults by teaching children harmful beliefs about themselves or those around them? Our words matter and they are powerful; they can cut and demotivate or they can build and inspire.


- Joyline Maenzanise

 0

You May Like These Videos

Comments

There are no comments.

Latest stories

Zanu-PF OKs Mnangagwa as its 2023 candidate

by AP | 15 December 2018 | 105 Views

ZANU PF to ammend constitution

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 190 Views

China tells Zimbabwe 'Don't blame us, sort your own house'

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 266 Views

MDC Alliance losing Cllr jailed

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 140 Views

Mnangagwa donates 1 000 goats to schools

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 135 Views

PHOTOS: Bomb found at ZBC studios

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 125 Views

PHOTOS: MDC gala dinner held in Harare

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 121 Views

Kalawa Homecoming in disappointing line-up

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 99 Views

Mnangagwa's Important Speech

by Tom Nkala | 15 December 2018 | 118 Views

Mutsvangwa, Mangwana in messy fight with Energy Mutodi?

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 239 Views

Harare City Council owes $ 792 million

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 129 Views

Police crush teachers' protest demo

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 182 Views

Mnangagwa re-introduces Green Bombers

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 198 Views

Mnangagwa exposes Muchinguri-Kashiri lie

by newzimbabwe | 15 December 2018 | 227 Views

Zimbabwe doctors using condoms as medical gloves?

by ZimLive | 15 December 2018 | 158 Views

Mutsvangwa; Mangwana in messy fight with Energy Mutodi?

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 167 Views

Panic as Air Zimbabwe leaves passenger bags in South Africa

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 185 Views

Chamisa's MDC can go hang, says VP Chiwenga

by Staf reporter | 15 December 2018 | 176 Views

Government assures murdered lawyer's family of justice

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 144 Views

StanChart sued over $78000 unauthorised withdrawal

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 143 Views

Sex vendor in court for 'theft' from client

by Staf reporter | 15 December 2018 | 136 Views

'Zimbabwe must remain a unitary state'

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 115 Views

$1,5bn stabilisation deal for Zimbabawe

by Staf reporter | 15 December 2018 | 153 Views

Minister slams fake Facebook account impostor

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 130 Views

Mnangagwa to release Motlanthe report next week

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 122 Views

Chamisa clause, a view from the other side!

by Farai Muvuti | 15 December 2018 | 168 Views

Mudzuri snubs Chamisa

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 134 Views

Mnangagwa warns Zanu-PF against complacency

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 120 Views

Mohadi's health deteriorates

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 133 Views

Mukanya will retire when he dies

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 108 Views

Chamisa must wake up from GNU reverie

by Ediitorial - zimpapers | 15 December 2018 | 153 Views

Health hazard looms as hospital Registrars down tools.

by Mandla Ndlovu | 15 December 2018 | 85 Views

'Zanu-PF has no agenda for a GNU'

by Emmerson Mnangagwa | 15 December 2018 | 160 Views

Second drowned Government official's body recovered

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 91 Views

Ex-lover drags cop to court over upkeep

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 69 Views

Mnangagwa to serve his two terms, says Chiwenga

by Staf reporter | 15 December 2018 | 71 Views

Zimbabwe security sector reform back on the agenda

by Staff reporter | 15 December 2018 | 70 Views